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July 25th, 2009 at 07:06 am

So, this is where we're starting.

$13,000 worth of consumer debt.

That's what we have.
That's a lot of money.
That's way more than either of us had realized.

We don't buy expensive stuff. We don't wear name brands. We shop at thrift stores for clothes and most of my books. We don't drink much, or have expensive hobbies. We don't travel.

So where did it come from?
-We drive a crappy car that needs repairing all the time, and we've never had the common sense to sit down and start a car fund.
-We've been caught unaware with some house stuff. Like last month when it rained in the kitchen. Again, we should have had an emergency fund.
-Some of it, shamefully, is still from our cat's surgery. Said cat died five years ago.
-I was unemployed while I was in school, and C was unemployed for the last nine months.
-Some of it might have, kind of, sort have, bought me a diamond engagement ring. Maybe.

We've got a 2K emergency fund now. I'm going to the bank tomorrow to "pay off" our credit cards with our line of credit (6.25% vs 18.5%)

Deep breath. Here goes.

12 Responses to “Accountability”

  1. whitestripe Says:
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    good luck. please make sure you are ready to pay off the debt with your line of credit. while that might sound silly, you need to think about your money choices from now on very carefully. it's still debt, no matter how it's named. Smile

  2. gamecock43 Says:
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    "Some of it might have, kind of, sort have, bought me a diamond engagement ring. Maybe." LOL! you are too funny! $13k is a lot but if you have been on these boards you will see that people have gotten rids of amounts 2-3x that. So you will be doing the happy dance soon if you buckle down.

  3. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    Are you both employed now? Obviously, that should make a huge difference!

  4. Ima saver Says:
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    Welcome and good luck!

  5. BecomingRooted Says:
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    Hi everyone! Thanks for making me feel so welcome.

    To answer some questions:
    Whitestripe: We discussed it and the minimum payment wouldn't be much more than we had on the credit cards. In turn, we'll be paying roughly a third the interest. Sounds like a plan, but we'll make sure we are careful.

    Joan.of.the.Arch: Yes, we're both working now. My fiance actually just found a job. It's retail, which he wasn't thrilled about, but he's just happy to be working again. We're going to be applying most of his earnings to paying down the debt.

    And to gamecock43 and Ima saver: thanks!! Smile

  6. creditcardfree Says:
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    Welcome! I think it is a great move that you are shifting the balance to your line of credit. That interest rate is much better.

    Keep the focus and pay it off as quick as you can. It helps if you don't add any more debt to the mix, too!

  7. BecomingRooted Says:
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    Thanks creditcardfree! We finally have an emergency fund, and while it's not huge, it should cover any surprises. So, we're doing our best not to bring any more debt into the mix.

  8. whitestripe Says:
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    it's good you had a talk and a think about it and are serious about getting your debt out of the way. there are lots of people out there that pay their consumer debt off with mortgage refinancing or lines of credit, but then go on right ahead and get themselves in yet more debt. just don't do that! Big Grin

  9. Blue Eyes Says:
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    Welcome...I'm glad you joined us.

  10. HELPmeFriend Says:
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    It picks away at you small pieces at a time. The large things that you knew of, including the rock, are the only things staring you in the face. The car is a hard one, since I have four that we bounce between, when we have the money to fix one.
    Use a balance sheet with your checkbook ritual. Write down the coffees, gas receipts, and $2-$3 things and add them up. That's where it comes from when you don't look for it.

  11. BecomingRooted Says:
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    I've tried writing everything down, but I always stopped after a few weeks. Too lazy, I guess. And I find it frustrating to keep track of cash and debit and several accounts in one register. But now that I pretty much feel like this is a do-or-die situation, I'm getting very serious about this kind of stuff.

    To make it easier I've switched back to an old wallet that holds a transaction register and pen. While I'm still not great about writing expenses down at the very moment they occur, I at least make sure I put the receipts into the register so I can enter them that night.

    You're absolutely right, it's the little things that sneak up on you.

  12. MomEsq Says:
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    I'm late - but hi, and congratulations on your engagement! A few months after we got engaged, my (now husband) finacee and I moved in together. Over time, I started handling the finances (he is not a detail oriented person). He was slightly mortified when he found out that I paid off the bill for my engagement ring about a year later. Smile

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